"Daddy issues," fear of abandonment, self-sabotaging, distrust, and choosing the wrong partner: Relationships are SO complicated.
Turns out our childhood and upbringing actually play a big role in the way our adult relationships unfold. So no, it's not necessarily that you're "bad at love," and there are definitely ways to improve yourself and your relationships (phew!).
Start here by finding out what YOUR attachment style is, and what you can do about it.
Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Inescure in Love by Leslie Becker-Phelps